Few days ago, I had this message from “Kuwait News” on my mobile
“ The parliament passes a law to impose a fine on anyone who dresses or behaves in anyway that may indicate that he’s a gay, or she’s a lesbian”
And the strange thing is that the parliament voted unanimously in its favor, in one session!!!
WOW; didn’t know that such issue had such a national priority. I doubt if it was even properly discussed in the parliament. How about the validity of such bill when it contradicts with other clauses of the constitution? If there are any additions that should be made to the clauses of the constitution; it should guarantee more freedom and not less. What does ElSaqer, and Alrashid who consider themselves liberals think about this?
Somehow I feel that the majority voted with the bill to embarrass the prime minister :p
This bill was passed in haste, now they have to come up with the detailed amendment to describe “how one can dress or behave in a way not to be mistaken for the other gender?” Because this could really be a problem for most of us. I for one; do not have many dresses, or skirts; I usually wear my jeans or a baggy pants with tops. Oh and I wonder what would be the situation with wearing shorts? I love wearing them and go biking :p
Ok, now seriously; I think there should be laws governing our general appearance in the work place, like most local and international banks. And that it should not apply to gays alone. Although I do understand that gays are more liable to discrimination than others when it comes to public behavior.
I worked for the ministry of Public Works for years; one of my many positions there was heading the General Planning Department. And one of my duties was redistributing personnel according to their expertise. Some were considered “excess” in some departments, while were in “demand” as qualifications in others, and the biggest problem I was facing was gays. No one wanted them because other employees did not accept them, although some carried high qualifications that some departments desperately needed. Some others with qualifications ended up working trivial jobs in far away site locations, just to stay away from the main office and the problem they were facing with other employees; especially men.
The problem is that some gays insist on showing their sexual identity by wearing make up, exposing Henna hands, and tight colorful tops. One of the gays I was dealing with, brought his wife to meet me (a Saudi man) who was wearing a black, decolte dress. The whole floor gathered to see them go out of my office. And the number is nothing that one could take lightly; it was around 28 men back then in 2001. There were around 10 women who openly exposed their sexual tendencies with the way they wear their clothes or behave, or even say out loud, without being afraid that others might take discriminatory measures against them. But I guess the society isn’t really bothered with those, may be because this is rooted as an old Islamic belief in us, that women are naqisat 3agl (according to Islam preaching; women’s brains are not complete, whatever that means!!!) and that women are only following a trend that would pass eventually. Well, at least I know by being a Moslem woman I can get away with many things :p
To be honest with you; I really feel sorry for gays in general. Gays are not aliens, as religion wants us to believe. We have to accept them as a part of our society. If God created gays; who are we to defy his creation? Now I’m talking in the same language of the ones who are fighting gays’ rights in the society, and who do believe in God’s creation. And we should not discriminate others according to one’s gender or sexual preferences. But sexual preferences are very private and it should stay so. Working place is not the place to display such preferences. Especially that there are guys who consider themselves straight (whatever is the definition for that), but in reality; they are perverts. Gays may expose themselves to sexual harassment (and it happened although the guy concerned denied it, and nothing was done about it), which they do not need, and there are no laws that can protect them. I had an incident where some employees complained about gays using men’s bathrooms. They demanded that some bathrooms should be labeled for gays only!!!!
Anyway; what I’m trying to say is that a law is needed to control general appearance in the working place. For example; one should not wear evening dresses with glittering sequence to work, nor wear official suits when going for a disco. This should be elementary; but without such laws (broad lines), one can never keep a decent atmosphere. This should be applicable to all employees. It’s not a matter of being conservative; but rather is an effort for finding a workable atmosphere away from other distractions.
And talking about being conservative; it seems to me that the ones who call themselves liberals are even worse than some hard-liners. They did not even discuss whether this move is against the constitution or not. Time for you guys to go home and resign if you can’t take the responsibility. Or, better yet; change your party; there are much more incentives on the other side of the fence, and the Islamists will make sure that you will always get a big piece of the cake; they have the whole country in their pockets.
And on a similar note; incidentally, US military, the Department of Defense has discharged 37 linguists from the Defense Language Institute for being gay, click here. They also fired Arabic-English translators in Iraq, for no reason other than declaring that they are gays. Which clearly shows that being conservative has no nationality, but it is more connected with religion.
Look for the source of the problem; and it’s always religion.
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